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Submitting to God - with our kids...
How about kids?  Kids are amazing.  They can divide and conquer, can’t they?  “Dad what do you think?  Well, Mom said…oh, really?  Hey, Dad, Mom said this and….”  Way too often, our kids are separating and dividing us.  They’re trying to conquer, trying to take over the umbrella. What do you do?  It’s all about authority.  Kids want authority.  They’re screaming for authority.  They want to see authority and submission in marriage.  So as wise parents, if we have kind of a sticking point, we huddle up away from the kids and say, “Okay, you said this, but… Okay, that’s great.  We will present a united front, because we’re under the authority of God and because we walk in concert together.  But the deal is - Together. 

And then your kids, who are screaming for authority and boundaries, will see that you are on the same team.
  Then when they start dating, they’ll look for that in the person they’re dating.  The little girls will say, “Hey, he is holding the umbrella.  This guy is an umbrella fella.  I like that.  He reminds me of my father.”  The guy will say, “Whoa, look at her!  She has a servant’s heart, a heart of maturity.  I like that.  I like that.”

When we become Christ followers, what happens?  We say, “Jesus, I’ve been ambushed by your grace and mercy and power.  Jesus, I want to serve you.  I submit my all to you, Lord.”  God does not want our cold-hearted servility.  He doesn’t need the manipulation thing, ladies.  He doesn’t want us to masquerade around.  He doesn’t want us to have this mindless obedience.  We want to serve him.  We want to love him.  And that’s this beautiful thing that we’re talking about.  This sacrifice thing and this submission thing.  Finances and kids.  Don’t give the umbrella of authority to your kids. 

 

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